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Modern society being what it is, usually when we hear the wordnymphwe associate it with thenymphomania, i.e. a woman who is a sex feen.But a “nymph” is actually one of those types of female creatures, like fairies or water spirits for instance, that are found in Greek mythology.
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You can view the lyrics, alternate interprations and sheet music for Melanie Martinez's Nymphology at Lyrics.org.
Indeed, we see in the first verse that Martinez likens herself to “a sprite or an elf”.And relatedly and more to the intended point is when people perceive the vocalist as a “muse” or what have you, that then, based on Melanie’s experience, make them feel as if they can “use” her.
But even though this first verse feels general in its approach, as the song progresses it may be that she’s speaking to a particular individual rather than the world at large per se.
Officially, the term “nymphology” is the name given to the study of nymphs.But within the context of this song, it’s more along the lines of the vocalist using it to her womanhood.In other words, there isn’t anyone who can convince Melanie that she isn’t a real woman.
What is implied in the chorus and later revealed more overtly in the bridge is that who she’s addressing specifically is a romantic interest, i.e. her toxic boyfriend.
“It’s nymphology, not psychology
Be the manic pixie dream girl that you f–king ‘ought to be
Damaged oddity bought by sotheby’s
Auctioned to a selfish man who thinks that he’s the prophecy”
So basically, this song serves the purpose of the vocalist asserting herself as someone who will not be bullied.Moreover, the artist at hand saw fit to place such assertions within a feminine context.
Perhaps the rationale behind that approach is based on the notion that, as inferred throughout, the addressee puts an inordinate amount of pressure on her to take him, viewing Martinez’s womanhood as if she is a mother figure.But her response is that she’s a real woman alright, to the extent of being willing to cut the addressee off if he continues misusing her.
“PART 2: AMULET”
The second part of this song is, in a sense, more confusing than the first. But there is what can be deemed a discernible storyline. Melanie uses the opportunity a ‘movie star’ and furthermore it would seem a fellow female that she’s had some type of romantic relationship with. And this may also be a threesome sort of thing, as the vocalist refers to being involved with the addressee’s “boyfriend” also.
And Melanie seems to be getting at is being too hot for them to handle, or perhaps we can say more than up to the challenge that the situation presents, thus once again asserting her womanhood, in a manner of speaking.
A More Thorough Explanation of “Nymphology”
We already took a look at“Nymphology”back on March 31st, when it first came out but at the time did not have Melanie’s own explanation in tow.But now that such is available, we know that what this song is actually stands for is Martinez’s reaction to the popular portrayal of women.
And the reason she refers to said portrayal as “nymphology” is reportedly because,under her estimation, the associated expectations harp back to the depictions of nymphs from the days of old.Or put otherwise, modern man’s romantic ideologies of women are derived from mythical characters like nymphs, not real life, if you will.
So with that premise in mind, we can now focus more on the message behind this song rather than its imagery.So it becomes clearer in the first verse and pre-chorus that the vocalist is not only addressing her boyfriend but rather all men who take advantage of women in what can be deemed two common ways.
One is by taking advantage of them sexually and emotionally without reciprocating, and second is placing so much of an onus on them that it becomes more like a son/mother than a husband/wife type of interpersonal situation.
So to make a long sentiment short, Melanie ain’t having it.And she more clearly illustrates her disposition in the chorus by noting that the aforementioned type of treatment is “nymphology, not psychology”.
Melanie’s Explanation
Going back to Melanie’s explanation of this piece and within the context of the lyrics, what that assertion would entail is that she’s not going to play some type of docile role in the name of pleasing a man.And in that regard Martinez mentions what is referred to as “the manic pixie dream girl”.
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According to Wikipedia, that’s a designation given to a type stock character found in movies, the kind of female who ‘has eccentric personality quirks’, is “unabashedly girlish” and ‘serves as the romantic interest for a (most often brooding or depressed) male antagonist’.Her ultimate purpose,according to TV Tropes, is “to give new meaning to the male hero’s life” – in other words dedicating her own life to making him better than his usually solemn self.
That sounds exactly like what the “selfish” addressee of this song is expecting, a woman who makes it her main goal to keep him right.So in Martinez’s eyes that’s the same role which the likes of nymphs played in mythology – an observation which, in a general sorta way, is actually true.
Into the second verse, the vocalist continues to lambast such romantic interests.What she implying is that due to her decision not to play the nymph, her own boyfriend thinks that she is somehow out of control. And Melanie uses that as a premise to lambast all of such guys as being immature and delusional basically.
Or let’s say that under her estimation, these types of dudes are more caught up in “nymphology” than reality.
A Defense Strategy
As illustrated in the pre-chorus, this isn’t about the vocalist trying to come off as some type of hardened, independent woman.Rather, taking such a stance is her defense against being emotionally used, not abused per se, by men.
That is to say that her sweetheart doesn’t come off as being the verbally abusive type.Rather, his flaws are selfishness and having unrealistic or unfair expectations of women.
But to reiterate, what this vocalist has rather dedicated herself to is not being the victim.So even though, as admitted in the bridge, she is ‘honestly in love’ with the addressee, eventually, by the looks of things, she decides to him the boot, perhaps even literally doing so, i.e. ‘kicking his a-s out’ of her house.
Furthermore, Melanie conducts this act maliciously, under full awareness that without her to fall back on as usual, the addressee will ‘choke on his doubt’ and go on to “die”.
The Team Behind “Nymphology”
This is another track from Melanie’s album“Portals”that was produced and co-written by CJ Baran who, as with Martinez herself, is from Long Island.And he co-wrote the song with Melanie, in addition to an artist known as Dark Waves.
“Nymphology”, which is a product of Atlantic Records that was released on 31 March 2023,was inspired bya demo the songstress put together in 2021 titled“Emerald”.
Nothing but Goosebumps!
“This song is amazing – it gives me goosebumps and feels like the true masterpiece itis! We should all take a moment to appreciate Melanie for the hard work she put into creating it, as well as all the other songs on the album. As a singer myself, I can truly appreciate the effort and dedication that went into ‘Nymphology’. This is surely an inspiration for young singers like myself.”
– Amanda
“I’m not your Mother!”
“‘Nymphology’ really hit me hard, especially the part where she sings “I’m not your mother”. It resonated with me because I recently ended an 8-month old relationship. I was exhausted from constantly feeling like I had to take care of my ex boyfriend, even though he was two years older than me. It’s a relief to hear someone else express that same sentiment.”
– Stacy is Strong
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saana saame says:
April 4, 2023 at 5:41 pm
i loved this project. not really a superfan but this can not not be seen. she took her power back fiercly! love it!
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Melaniac says:
April 6, 2023 at 7:41 pm
Melanie is out of this world!!!! We cannot wait for this new venture!!!!! As she takes us all on another wild adventure. I am here for it alllllll!!!!
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NymphsandDraids says:
May 20, 2023 at 7:00 pm
I love it and I really appreciate her amount of meaning in each song and the impacts on people
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